I have such particular enmity for arguments that try to use need/non-self-sufficience as pejorative.
Like “So what, X just can’t take care of themselves/do all this for themselves?” with clear presupposition that that would be bad so you’re going to have to deny it and then they’ve got you.
And it’s great how coming from a paradigm of embracing need and fighting ableism means you can cut that right off.
Like, “Yes, I can’t just take care of myself/do all this myself. There are resources I don’t have and obstructions and suppressants in my way. I need help and support and I should be able to get it. And if I’m not, then that’s wrong and a problem we need to be solving.”